Officiant NYC: 10 Questions with Alex

Officiant - Alex

Business: Officiant NYC
Location: New York City, New York NY
Experience: 13 Years
Profile: Officiant NYC
Website: www.officiantnyc.com

1. Introduction: What's your story?

Hi,

I'm Alex, Owner of OFFICIANT NYC. My love for uniting couples started in the theatre. With over 30 years as a professional Actor, Director and Choreographer, Friends of mine on Broadway asked me to marry them. It was one of the most fulfilling days of my life, and I never looked back. The idea to be able to bring two people together, to write and craft their story, to present them in front of a room filled with loved ones, and lead the room with storytelling, and honor- is absolutely something I cherish.

2. What's your experience as a wedding officiant? How many weddings have your officiated?

After 13 years in the industry, I stopped counting at over 1000 weddings.
I have months where I can marry 20-30 couples & sometimes months where it's 5-10 couples.
It all depends on each and every situation, but each story- each couple- is filled with an interesting backstory. My joy is being able to meet people, to share their story, and unite them under the law- while celebrating their unique and individual union.
Every couple I have married, I have done with pride and joy.

3. How far in advance do couples need to secure your services?

Sometimes it's quick last minute elopements, and sometimes it's 2 years in advance.
The average seems to be one year.

4. How would you describe your officiant style?

Friendly, down-to-earth and joyous. My Theatre skills come in handy as I use nuanced diction, tone, delivery & add lighthearted humor from time to time, but also- respect and love for the couple I am working with. My goal, is always to treat each couple as if they were the first couple I ever married, which were my best friends. It involves energy, grace and humility. The power of the word is so important- but what's also important- is HOW it's delivered. I never bury my head in my book- but rather, speak to the room, learn my story and deliver a memorable ceremony that can hopefully remain in people's hearts and minds for a long time.

5. What are your fees for officiating a wedding?

The range based on size & scope.
An inquiry is always best.

6. What do you wear when you officiate a wedding?

My job is to disappear in your pictures. I never pull focus, and as a theatre and film/tv professional, I am highly intuitive to aesthetics, video and photography. I wear all black- so the couple can stand out in their photos and video. It's not about Me,... it's about the couple.

7. How many pre-wedding sessions will the couple need to have with you?

We have a thorough process through emails and consultations and unique ways to gather your story.
By the time the ceremony comes, the goal is to really feel comfortable and safe.